It's hard to believe that two weeks ago Harmony was born. On one hand I feel like it was just yesterday that I went into labor, but on the other hand I feel like she has been with me forever.
So how are things going with the Shipmans after two weeks? Well...
1. My mom went back home to Allegany on Sunday, which was really hard for me since i relied on her for advice and for help with taking care of Harmony since Mike had to go back to work. But I am lucky that I'm feeling a lot better, and that i can do pretty much everything for her now. It's still hard to go up and down the stairs a lot, so Mike is doing a lot of the chores around the house (and he just LOVES it....right honey?)
2. Harmony is finally on somewhat of a predictable schedule now. She wakes at 7 or 7:30, and eats every 2 1/2, 3 hours until bedtime. At night she only wakes up once for a middle of the night feeding, which is so nice! I actually don't mind getting up and snuggling with her for a half an hour or so. After she's done eating she goes right back to sleep.
3. Evenings are her fussy times. From about 7-10PM she doesn't like to sleep, and she gets SOOO overtired that she works herself up so bad. I hate it! I have to let her cry it out, and it's torture. Pure torture to listen to my baby girl wail. But she can't rely on me to rock her to sleep all the time. I hope this little ritual goes away soon!
4. When she first was born i thought she looked just like Mike. And she still does. but I'm beginning to see a little of me in her eyes, and unfortunately her nose! We swear it gets bigger every day! Poor girl!
5. She is so curious. She turns her head toward any noise (especially daddy's voice), and is always watching. She LOVES to watch kemper when he is sniffing around her. She'll be torturing him in no time. He's starting to get a little jealous of her now that it's just me and Harmony during the day. He's been whining a lot, and has been very needy- wanting to be near me all the time. I feel terrible when I'm feeding her and he is at my feet whimpering, wanting to be cuddled too. But overall he has been WONDERFUL around her. He loves to lay on the end of the bed and watch her sleep. It's so cute.
I really really love being a mom. She is such a good girl, so she makes it easy! I love our quiet time during the day when it's just her and I. We snuggle, we nap together, I sing to her and talk to her, and she just watches me. It's so wonderful to see this little life grow before your very eyes. On one hand i can't wait to have her walking and talking, and making us laugh, but on the other hand i never want her to get any bigger than she is now. She's my little cuddle bug, and I want to remember these first days forever. I can't wait for all of you to meet her!
5 comments:
Any two week pictures? Or shall I just come down, give Mike a break with the chores and take some pictures myself? I'd LOVE to talk to you so if you get a free second give me a call cause i haven't talked to you in 2 weeks! Love you and Mo and Mike!
That was such a cute writing (as usual!). I miss you too! I was go thankful for the time I could spend with you as your recovered too....just continue to be careful and not lift anything! You will be a GREAT Mommie!! As Jaime, I always love to see updated pictures too! Love you all, Mom
Hi Rachel! Reading your posts brings back so much...from such a short few weeks ago for us. Just wanted to comment on #3... our Laura did the same thing...it eased up and got a lot better at around 5-6 weeks though. I'm not sure if you want any advice or not ...but I'd say at this point do whatever you can to comfort her during her fussy times. You won't spoil her. Hold her, rock her, walk with her, have daddy dance with her...whatever she needs to settle down in the evenings. You won't be rocking her forever to get her to sleep... Have you read happiest baby on the block? I highly suggest it... he talks about how to get through the fussy times. I think there is even a DVD out if you don't have the time to read a book...
We can't wait to meet her either!! We may have to change the plans for the Friday night before Christmas...
I'll let you know as soon as we figure things out. Love you and give Harmony kisses from us :)
I'm glad you're feeling better. Harmony sounds like a great little girl! I want to hold her!!!!
Keep up the great work!
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